[Please note: This post was actually written on November 13th - I have been having an AWFUL time with Aabaco small business (yahoo) which hosts this site. The information for accessing it - as the owner - put me in a death spiral loop and the contact number for help was ALWAYS busy. I finally had an hour to get through the frustration, found a number that connected, spoke with someone in Bangladesh, and finally got access again. Will be updating again shortly!]
I’ve been trying to figure out when life got so busy. I think when I was in corporate America, busy was the rule rather than the exception Since I’ve been in academia, busy always seemed to be the exception. Summers off. Long Christmas vacations. This luxury seems to be a distant memory now. It’s not so much my job, but everything surrounding it right now.
A quick recap: Irma put everything in a tailspin for several weeks. My college closed for an entire week – really unprecedented for anything I’ve experienced in my 20 years of teaching. Since then, I’ve been jumping from project to project to project, essentially putting out fires.
Penny is now eight months old. I had her spayed a few weeks ago. Although the first day was hard on her, she bounced back very quickly. She is now in the “terrible twos” phase where she needs to be watched as she enjoys chewing everything.

The following week was the yard sale. It took an entire week to get ready for, then Saturday came and only a few people showed up. It was embarrassing. We decided to go an extra day, and a bit later. This time we had a bit more luck, but if I had to guess, we probably sold ¼ of the stuff we had put out. I think if I ever had t do it over, I would have just donated everything and gotten my week back… But as I learned when they carted my stuff away when I sold my house in Maine, it is very difficult to let your things go (that you paid good money for!). Perhaps it drives home what a mistake it was to buy those things in the first place. Hmmmm..

Immediately after the tag sale fiasco, we had the “Halloween in the ‘hood party” here this year. Yes, we had I here last year, however the couple we rotate with was doing a kitchen renovation, and I was actually happy to host it again this year. It’s always a lot of work, but also a lot of fun.




Once Halloween was over, there was not denying what was next. And it’s much more terrifying.
Of course, I’m speaking of the Holiday Home Tour. I started doing a countdown, but realized it was making me crazy, so I stopped. But now the number is real and there seems to be an insurmountable number of tasks to do in the remaining days.
I was really fortunate that a neighbor, who is a contractor, is helping me with a really big project – actually two – that have been on the “list” for some time. As you might recall, we had windows that were blown out during the hurricane – HISTORIC windows… not the kind you can just go to Home Depot and replace. He actually found a company that builds he windows (naturally they are not cheap, but there is not a choice in this matter). They are building them now and should have them ready to go. He is also fixing the porch. Several contractors I asked for an estimate ran away screaming, but the rotted wood, etc., is being fixed right now.
In addition to the windows and porch, which are really big projects I’m also working on:
- Cleaning furniture and rugs (happened today – yay!)
- Fixing molding, replacing furniture, etc. in the carriage house
- Cleaning windows
- Fixing a fireplace gas insert
- Hardwood floor refinishing fiasco
- A million caulking/painting projects
- Landscaping landscaping landscaping (including Mt. Mulchmore)
- Don’t get me started on the garage…
Oh and did I mention Christmas decorations?
Soooooo…..
I thought it was interesting when I was walking my dogs by a neighbor’s house this past summer and she said “oh, I heard you are going to be on the tour this year”…And then something about not getting too stressed out or going too crazy. I think I laughed to myself thinking… “not me! Ha ha ha!!”.
Ooops.
I totally and complexly understand what she was trying to tell me now.
So I started to think I was alone in my panic to get things done and “perfect” until I met up with one of the other homeowners on the tour at our Friday breakfast at T-rays. She explained all the problems she was having getting things “perfect” for the tour, and we laughed… almost cried.. and laughed again.
At this point, almost every waking moment is consumed with getting every detail taken care of.. and with 3500 square feet between the 2 houses and 3 city lots.. it’s a lot of work for anyone… so please don’t judge!
One last note – I mentioned in an earlier post that we were going to be on the Christmas ornament for the museum – then I picked up a copy of the snooze leader a few weeks ago and it said that another house would be the ornament. I met with the photographer, etc., but could not understand the mistake. I blasted the people at the museum, and they responded very apologetically. They said that the trees cast a shadow on the house and they could not get a good picture for the die. Of course, they thought they had told me, but word never came. My thought is “can’t they just take a picture at a different time of day? The trees don’t cast a shadow all the time. Anyway, it really pissed me off. Hopefully better things to come.